by Mir | Jul 17, 2012 | It's not a regret, it's an "experience"
Today my Chickadee has been in residential treatment for 36 days. (Not that we’re counting.) She was in acute care for five days before that, so the total 41 days she’s been away is by far the longest we’ve ever been apart. I keep waiting for it to...
by Mir | Jul 16, 2012 | What do I do all day?
It’s depressing me to have that last post be on top of the page, here. Instead let’s all admire the latest arrival at Casa Mir: I’ve been trying to grow melons in my garden for years, and this year—the year my garden surely should be dead of...
by Mir | Jul 12, 2012 | Health is overrated, My name is Grumplestiltskin
If Chickadee had cancer—if she had a tumor in her brain or rogue cells infiltrating her marrow—everything would be different. Well, almost everything. The thing that wouldn’t be different would be the fear and the worry and the what-if-ing I try to...
by Mir | Jul 10, 2012 | It's not a regret, it's an "experience"
So my new (awesome) therapist commented to me this morning that in her experience, people fall into one of two categories: Either they are worriers—chronically agonizing over absolutely everything—or they tend not to worry at all, even in situations where...
by Mir | Jul 9, 2012 | It's not a regret, it's an "experience"
I bought myself a fancy new dehydrator. Wait; that’s not entirely true. I did ORDER myself that fancy new dehydrator, but I didn’t pay for it. I had some credit laying around over at Fab.com and one day instead of boutiques comprised solely of upcycled...