Varying definitions of “relaxing”

I find camping very relaxing. It is only while camping that I do not feel guilty sitting down with a novel and devouring it in one sitting. At home there’s always something that needs cleaning or otherwise attending to, whereas at a campsite, I consider reading and napping to be the two main categories of strenuous activity.

The children, however, do not have a need to loll around and relax. They scoff at relaxing! They are plenty relaxed! They are so relaxed, they need to poke at each other and run around in circles, and then THAT will be considered calm in comparison to what comes next, which is generally the Whining Olympics of She Took That Shell I Found Well He Won’t Stop Humming In My Ear, etc. They are so relaxed that they would like to go swimming now, please, and have a snack now, please, and by the way, when are we going to see Boatguy?

You may remember Otto’s friend Boatguy from our trip last year. He graciously towed my kids all over the lake, and the kids remembered that he is WAY more fun than me and Otto. Fortunately, he was there, too.

Even better, this year his son and his son’s friend were there, too, so BONUS—extra kids!

[Aside: What the kids remember from last year is the tubing. As we prepared to go out on the boat the first time, this year, I said, “WHAT IS THE NUMBER ONE RULE OF BEING ON THE BOAT?” and Monkey obediently replied “Wear a life jacket!” But Chickadee knew exactly what I was thinking of—she grinned and yelled, “Grab the ropes!” so I had to throw her punk self overboard. Too bad the boat docks in what is only about two feet of water at the shore.]

Two kids on a tube is fun, but FOUR kids on a tube is complete mayhem, so naturally the entire gaggle of them did multiple runs that way before they decided that maybe just three would be a little bit better. I’m afraid my delicate bird-like offspring were getting a bit battered by the other two boys; both of these nine-year-olds were bigger than Monkey (at 11-and-a-half), and one of them outweighed Chickadee, too. Nevertheless, as the oldest and the only girl, Chickadee played the Regal Queen card for all she was worth, insisting the boys let her be in the middle of the tube whenever she was out, and then agreed without argument—Monkey, because he nearly always cedes to her wishes, and the other two boys because I suspect they feared she might cry or otherwise leak cooties on them if they refused. This meant that Chickie rarely got thrown from the tube (it’s the kids on the edges who are most likely to get flung), and once she did, she decided to ride in the boat for a while.

And that, of course, is when the real fun began. With just the three boys on the tube, Boatguy took them on a wild ride. Then clung for dear life, but sometimes, dunking is inevitable. Call me a sadist, but I never tired of scenes like this:

And believe you me, the kids slept well that night.

Of course, once we got home yesterday, the kids slumped in front of the television, happy and relaxed, while Otto and I unloaded the camper and did a bazillion loads of laundry and dishes. I didn’t find that terribly relaxing, but last night, having it all DONE and then sleeping in my own bed… well, that was. Particularly with memories of watching my children pinwheeling across the lake after losing their grip on the tube. Heh.

So, given that I didn’t post much this long weekend, I have a twofer for you today! Not only do you get that picture of the boys doing lake ballet (ha!), you also get a new post from me at Off Our Chests. Come on over and check it out, won’t you?

13 Responses to “Varying definitions of “relaxing””

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    The Mommy Therapy May 31, 2011 at 9:15 am #

    My husband is desperate to take our family camping, which does sound like fun to me, in about 3 years when I no longer have a baby. Sitting around reading and enjoy nature only sounds fun if all my children can at least run around and no one needs things like a sippy cup.

    LOVE the tubing photos. It makes my arms hurt to even see it, but it does look like a good time.

    Welcome home!

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    elz May 31, 2011 at 9:15 am #

    Synchronized tubing! Love it. Sounds like fun.

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    Lynn in Mass May 31, 2011 at 9:27 am #

    Absolutely LOVE the pic. Yahh, for family boating on the lake and family camping trips.

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    birchsprite May 31, 2011 at 9:49 am #

    I’ve done tubing… it was terrifying! So kudos to both of them!

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    Julie May 31, 2011 at 9:56 am #

    Ha! That picture is worth a thousand words…love it Mir!

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    Damsel May 31, 2011 at 10:02 am #

    Love that pic! While I’ve never been a fan of camping (I’ll admit that my idea of “roughing it” is a motel room with a door that opens to the exterior of the building instead of a hallway), your version sounds fun!

    And I agree with The Mommy Therapy — I’ll probably enjoy it more when my kids no longer put everything – rocks, dirt, worms, turtles, bugs, campfire embers – in their mouths!

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    Jenn May 31, 2011 at 10:34 am #

    We went camping over the weekend too and I applaud the fact that you’ve already done the laundry. All our dirty sheets and towels are still in a heap in the laundry room and we had to drive by the storage place this morning on the way to school to get my deoderant and my son’s shoes out of the camper. I bow to your superior post-trip camping skillz.

    My camping experience was improved immensely by the fact that my kids found other kids to hang out with and essentially left me alone to enjoy my novel and my bloody mary.

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    Karen R. May 31, 2011 at 11:09 am #

    Camping with older (adult now) offspring is more relaxing, but the bazillion loads of laundry still await the return home. Our interesting glitch this past weekend was finding our daughter’s and friend’s adjacent site under water and unusable. Problem solved with some juggling with other friends who had rented two two-bedroom cabins near our sites. Daughter and friend stayed in one second bedroom, cabin family’s son stayed in the second bedroom of other friend’s cabin with their son, and daughter’s friend’s family ended up in a spare campsite about 12 sites down from us. Not terribly convenient, but we spent our non-sleeping hours hanging out together at one of the cabins, so it worked out as well as it could have.

    Next year all tent sites out of the flood plain (we’ve used them before), and all together!

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    Sheila May 31, 2011 at 11:10 am #

    They’ve got great technique: toes pointed and everything!

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    The Woman Formerly Known as Beautiful May 31, 2011 at 1:03 pm #

    Mosquitos and Earwigs and Poop Buckets oh my! (This is why I camp only once every new millennium)

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    Cele May 31, 2011 at 11:47 pm #

    I’m thinking they stuck the landing… or maybe the landing stuck them? It looks like fun and very amusing.

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    Flea June 1, 2011 at 8:27 pm #

    LOVE the lake ballet! Oh how I miss children young enough to have that much fun! Wait. No. Never mind.

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    Cecilia - Miss Parenting Controversy June 16, 2011 at 11:15 pm #

    Camping is my worst nightmare! Miriam, I invite you to come and spend a weekend camping in the Australian bush…

    In addition to trying to survive the swarms of mosquitos eager to eat you alive, you’ll also be constantly side-stepping giant poison-secreting cane toads the size of footballs, staying nervously on the lookout for dingos that steal babies from tents, as well child-eating crocodiles whenever your kids are swimming, and fearfully hoping that one of the world’s most deadly snakes doesn’t curl up in your sleeping bag.

    Oh, and don’t forget the giant bird-eating spiders you’ll encounter when you’re doing your business behind a tree!

    We’ll see how relaxed you’re feeling after that! ;)

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