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	<title>Comments on: Sometimes love takes muscle</title>
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	<description>&#34;Maybe all we can hope to do is end up with the right regrets.&#34;</description>
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		<title>By: tracey</title>
		<link>http://wouldashoulda.com/2008/06/05/sometimes-love-takes-muscle/#comment-104223</link>
		<dc:creator>tracey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2008 05:18:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>sometimes a little comic relief is all you need. oh, and maybe a lick or two. GREAT shot!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>sometimes a little comic relief is all you need. oh, and maybe a lick or two. GREAT shot!</p>
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		<title>By: Asianmommy</title>
		<link>http://wouldashoulda.com/2008/06/05/sometimes-love-takes-muscle/#comment-104040</link>
		<dc:creator>Asianmommy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2008 06:36:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aww...that is so sweet!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aww&#8230;that is so sweet!</p>
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		<title>By: Jane</title>
		<link>http://wouldashoulda.com/2008/06/05/sometimes-love-takes-muscle/#comment-104036</link>
		<dc:creator>Jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2008 15:24:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you - I needed to hear that today.

Not the greatest of days with my nine year old, and it&#039;s SO good to hear that I am not alone in my back-and-forth relationship with him.

And to know we are not alone in our &#039;lick you on the face just to make you laugh and lighten a situation&#039; moments!

I am a recent convert to your site...and may I say that you are now highlighted in my Favourite list and I check in with you all the time - you always seem to just get it. Thank you.

And the power of a husband highlighting HIS relationship with you as separate from the kids - it cannot be underestimated in raising great kids.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you &#8211; I needed to hear that today.</p>
<p>Not the greatest of days with my nine year old, and it&#8217;s SO good to hear that I am not alone in my back-and-forth relationship with him.</p>
<p>And to know we are not alone in our &#8216;lick you on the face just to make you laugh and lighten a situation&#8217; moments!</p>
<p>I am a recent convert to your site&#8230;and may I say that you are now highlighted in my Favourite list and I check in with you all the time &#8211; you always seem to just get it. Thank you.</p>
<p>And the power of a husband highlighting HIS relationship with you as separate from the kids &#8211; it cannot be underestimated in raising great kids.</p>
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		<title>By: Astrogirl426</title>
		<link>http://wouldashoulda.com/2008/06/05/sometimes-love-takes-muscle/#comment-103981</link>
		<dc:creator>Astrogirl426</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 13:44:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmm, I think there&#039;s a definite Otto fan club in the works...

I thought I would escape the moodiness because I have a boy...Hah! I was so kidding myself. 

Actually, most days the Bunker Monkey is his usual sunny self, but then there&#039;s days like today, when he doesn&#039;t want to go to school, and stays in the hall until one of his teachers pulls him into the classroom (sigh). I know it&#039;s going to be a rough day when even promises of his Aunt picking him up from school don&#039;t cheer him up (and when mention of him seeing his favorite cousin don&#039;t do the job either? Then I start to worry).

But just think, in a few short years you will be sending Chickie off to college, and looking back fondly on this time (I think that&#039;s called amnesia :)).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm, I think there&#8217;s a definite Otto fan club in the works&#8230;</p>
<p>I thought I would escape the moodiness because I have a boy&#8230;Hah! I was so kidding myself. </p>
<p>Actually, most days the Bunker Monkey is his usual sunny self, but then there&#8217;s days like today, when he doesn&#8217;t want to go to school, and stays in the hall until one of his teachers pulls him into the classroom (sigh). I know it&#8217;s going to be a rough day when even promises of his Aunt picking him up from school don&#8217;t cheer him up (and when mention of him seeing his favorite cousin don&#8217;t do the job either? Then I start to worry).</p>
<p>But just think, in a few short years you will be sending Chickie off to college, and looking back fondly on this time (I think that&#8217;s called amnesia :)).</p>
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		<title>By: ImpostorMom</title>
		<link>http://wouldashoulda.com/2008/06/05/sometimes-love-takes-muscle/#comment-103980</link>
		<dc:creator>ImpostorMom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 10:37:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brings me back to my days as a sullen child giving my mother hell. We are as close as ever now so you have that to look forward to. That Otto IS a real find. What a wonderful thing to say to anyone but especially Chickie.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brings me back to my days as a sullen child giving my mother hell. We are as close as ever now so you have that to look forward to. That Otto IS a real find. What a wonderful thing to say to anyone but especially Chickie.</p>
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		<title>By: Tyra</title>
		<link>http://wouldashoulda.com/2008/06/05/sometimes-love-takes-muscle/#comment-103979</link>
		<dc:creator>Tyra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:46:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>New reader and all.  Just wanted to let everyone lusting after the flowers that they look like the Wallies I got at Lowes.  Everyone lusting after Otto. I can&#039;t help you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>New reader and all.  Just wanted to let everyone lusting after the flowers that they look like the Wallies I got at Lowes.  Everyone lusting after Otto. I can&#8217;t help you.</p>
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		<title>By: Mom101</title>
		<link>http://wouldashoulda.com/2008/06/05/sometimes-love-takes-muscle/#comment-103978</link>
		<dc:creator>Mom101</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 02:16:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re a good mama, Mir. Keep telling yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re a good mama, Mir. Keep telling yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: Kirsten</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kirsten</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 01:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh wow.  Otto just turned my cold little heart into a mushy pile of squee.

And thank you, because this post brought back memories of me and my mom, joking with one another over who knows what.  A look, a repeated phrase, and we would be in giggles for hours, while no one else understood what was so funny... as my mom was begging for me to stop and we&#039;d just do it all over again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh wow.  Otto just turned my cold little heart into a mushy pile of squee.</p>
<p>And thank you, because this post brought back memories of me and my mom, joking with one another over who knows what.  A look, a repeated phrase, and we would be in giggles for hours, while no one else understood what was so funny&#8230; as my mom was begging for me to stop and we&#8217;d just do it all over again.</p>
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		<title>By: Erin</title>
		<link>http://wouldashoulda.com/2008/06/05/sometimes-love-takes-muscle/#comment-103976</link>
		<dc:creator>Erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 00:20:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow!  That looks like so much fun!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow!  That looks like so much fun!</p>
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		<title>By: Flea</title>
		<link>http://wouldashoulda.com/2008/06/05/sometimes-love-takes-muscle/#comment-103975</link>
		<dc:creator>Flea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 23:42:37 +0000</pubDate>
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