If at first you don’t succeed, eBay, eBay again

I am going to live. Just thought you’d like to know. I may not be eating Chinese food again any time soon, though.

So, remember how I bought Chickadee a dress for the wedding? I bought it on eBay, and it’s been a while since I used eBay, see, so I’d forgotten how to speak the language.

The picture was lovely (if a tad blurry). It was advertised as being silk, and in pristine, perfect condition. I thought I’d gotten a great deal.

Sadly, I forgot that on eBay, translation is required.

silk = polyester
pristine = only a couple of stains
perfect = unraveling just a little

Yeah. So. I got burned on eBay. (Actually, I didn’t even get burned. The seller is being a gem about it all, although she’d be more of a gem if she’d listed it properly in the first place, I suppose.)

So what did I do, after my less-than-stellar wedding-related eBay experience?

Well, I tried to buy myself a dress (to wear! at! the! wedding!) at Nordstrom. But they didn’t have my size. First I did a live chat with customer service to see if they could maybe locate it in a store for me, but of course the dress I fell in love was nowhere to be found. And then I did the only logical* thing I could.

I went and bought it on eBay.

*If, indeed, 1) returning to eBay and 2) buying it in a size too large because that’s all there was can be considered logical. But even after I have it altered it’ll be less than half the Nordstrom price! If something catastrophic doesn’t happen, that is. And what are the odds? (Don’t answer that.)

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16 Responses to “If at first you don’t succeed, eBay, eBay again”

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    Jenn February 23, 2007 at 11:41 pm #

    One of my friends got her wedding dress on eBay, it was gorgeous, and if I remember right, I think she paid $12 for it. Woooo! And who cares of it’s too big? Formal wear sizing is stupid anyway, maybe you’ll get it and it will be perfect!

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    Cele February 24, 2007 at 12:19 am #

    wow, I am waiting to see the great deal you got, I hope you are very happy with it and in lots of ♥♥♥♥’s type love :)

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    parodie February 24, 2007 at 2:47 am #

    Since you’re planning a less-than-traditional wedding, you might find Indiebride an interesting place to peruse, if only to get good suggestions on things like places to find interesting dresses and the like. Or a place to vent. Whichever…

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    Heather February 24, 2007 at 4:07 am #

    Good luck! I just ordered my dress for my sister’s wedding online, and I’m really quite nervous about it!

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    LadyBug Crossing February 24, 2007 at 8:25 am #

    What size is your chickadee? I have a gorgeous white – but not stark white almost a creamy colored silk – real silk – dress that my daughter wore for my sister’s wedding. It is hanging in the closet. Want it? You can have it as a wedding present from me. It’s gorgeous. I’ll send you a picture if you are interested.
    Let me know!
    LBC

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    Mir February 24, 2007 at 8:28 am #

    Formal wear sizing? What is this formal wear of which you speak? I bought a cocktail dress. :D

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    Amy February 24, 2007 at 10:08 am #

    Do we get to see a picture of your dress? Or is that bad luck or something?

    We got our wedding rings on eBay and people thought we were funny for doing so. I thought we were smart!

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    JayMonster February 24, 2007 at 11:04 am #

    Can eBay be described as anything but a Love/Hate relationship. It had both been a huge blessing, and a bane to my existence at the same time!

    “Better” Luck with your dress than you had with Chickadee’s.

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    Melanie February 24, 2007 at 12:13 pm #

    You never know, eBay sometimes is a really good idea. I’ll cross my fingers for you that your dress is perfect. And do we get to see pictures of it? I love wedding dresses.

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    Amanda Cowan February 24, 2007 at 1:52 pm #

    I sold my wedding dress on ebay (I guess I figured that my daughter will just consider it too old-fashioned and we were trying to squeeze our 1800 sq ft home into 1150 sq ft when we moved to the Bay Area/Silicon Valley and a giant boxed dress was taking up too much space). But I ended up selling it for $50 and it really was in great condition! I wish you good luck in finding your dress!

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    BOSSY February 24, 2007 at 2:42 pm #

    Bossy often shops this way and wishes you luck, but remember: It’s eBay, not freeBay — if it’s too cheap something must be wrong with it.

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    Mom101 February 24, 2007 at 10:38 pm #

    My understanding, and I’m not a big ebay person, is that you’re looking for descriptions like “new with tags.” Anything else is a crapshoot. Better luck on yours!

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    Jenny February 24, 2007 at 11:05 pm #

    Ah, dress shopping. eBay dress shopping.

    Love, hate, love.

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    Lady M February 25, 2007 at 5:05 am #

    Good luck with the dress! I’ve only been brave enough to buy books on eBay.

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    Aimee February 26, 2007 at 10:45 am #

    Good luck with the dress! I hope it’ll be as GAWGEOUS as you are. :)

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    CCE February 26, 2007 at 8:33 pm #

    I’ve bought a car on e-bay…sight un-seen so to speak. It was absolutely perfect, as advertised. After driving it for two years I sold it, and yet again, this car changed hands via e-bay. A car, a wedding dress, what’s the difference? It should work for you! Best of luck.

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