Shaken, not stirred

It’s often said that the cruelest thing you can do to another person is “kick them when they’re down.”

I would posit that this was declared by someone utterly unused to being down.

Rather–if you consider it for a bit–it becomes clear that while in “crisis mode,” a person is fairly well-equipped (even if not particularly willing) to take on more adversity in the mix.

No, the cruelest thing you can do to another person is kick them when they’re on their way back up. It shatters any sense of relief they may have been enjoying. It bypasses whatever level of “down” they were previously at and puts them back at square one… except now, square one is more like square -83.

What revisions to common sayings would you suggest? Please discuss, while I find some cream to put on this rash.

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17 Responses to “Shaken, not stirred”

  1. 1
    Amanda B. April 20, 2005 at 8:40 am #

    “When God closes a door, he opens a window. And pushes you out of it.”

    Just kidding Big Guy.

  2. 2
    Jules April 20, 2005 at 9:02 am #

    That which doesn’t kill us could possibly lead to us killing someone else.

  3. 3
    ben April 20, 2005 at 9:15 am #

    Grasshopper always wrong in argument with chicken.

  4. 4
    DebR April 20, 2005 at 9:25 am #

    A bird in the hand is worth two antibacterial wet wipes.

  5. 5
    Sara April 20, 2005 at 10:07 am #

    The glass is all the way empty. Furthermore, it is broken and I just cut my lip and swallowed glass shards.

  6. 6
    Leanne April 20, 2005 at 10:08 am #

    No revisions to any sayings, but I just commented on a similar entry on another friends blog about this song: Tubthumping by Chumbawumba.

    It’s my motivator, I hope it works for you!! :D

  7. 7
    Lizzie April 20, 2005 at 11:32 am #

    If a messy house is a sign of happiness, than I’m absolutely delirious!!

    **blank stare**

    Umm…what Ben said.

  8. 8
    dad April 20, 2005 at 1:22 pm #

    The Law of Probability Dispersal decrees that whatever it is that hits the fan will not be evenly distributed.

    Breathe deeply.

  9. 9
    Kym April 20, 2005 at 1:54 pm #

    The early bird gets tired.

  10. 10
    ben April 20, 2005 at 4:04 pm #

    Since you liked my Hopper line (it’s a bugs life, after all), here’s some more:

    Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough to win.

    The only easy day was yesterday.

    And finally an Oscar Wilde that describes me well:
    Whenever people agree with me I always feel I must be wrong.

  11. 11
    Sarah G. April 20, 2005 at 4:30 pm #

    Life is a bitch, then she has puppies.

  12. 12
    poopie April 20, 2005 at 6:48 pm #

    T-92.5 here, but who’s countin?

    “Follow the yellow brick road…..”

  13. 13
    Ginny April 20, 2005 at 10:34 pm #

    It’s always darkest before you step on the Legos.

  14. 14
    savtadotty April 21, 2005 at 6:38 am #

    Money Talks: it says “Goodbye.”

  15. 15
    ben April 21, 2005 at 4:40 pm #

    Did I miss a memo?

    Where is everyone?

    *crickets*

  16. 16
    Karry April 21, 2005 at 11:26 pm #

    The grass is always greener in my own yard. That’s where everyone walks their dogs.

  17. 17
    Cindy April 22, 2005 at 2:09 pm #

    I was on my way back up after months in the ‘down’ until approximately 3:30 pm yesterday when I found myself on the receiving end of a steel toed boot.

    You are exactly right.

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